This is a blog for teenage girls that I created along with help from my friends and girls around the country. It talks about how to live up to God's expectations, know the truth, and stand up for what is right. Also, how not to measure up to this world, but to God's standard. Please e-mail me at Jennas_blog@live.com with any questions or ideas.
3/25/10
Love Endures Through Every Circumstance
Keep going... keep going... keep going... keep going........ If you have ever ran a long way or done something very tiring, you know the painful feeling of just wanting to QUIT! To finish a race and do your very best, the only thing you can do is not let the thought of stopping ever cross your mind! One thing that came to my mind yesterday when I ran 2 miles was, "Run for as long as you can't." If you think you can't continue, keep going. Eventually, you will have accomplished much more than you hoped in the beginning. That's the way it is with love.
"Love that doesn't endure isn't really love. Its easy to say you love someone, but if they were to reject you, turn their back on you, and never talk to you again, would you still love them?
Isn't that how we treat God? And yet, he still loves us." -Zach Sumner
Words are cheap. Many of us say "I love you", without really meaning it. Love, according to the Bible, is an action. It is more than a feeling when it is truly love. 1 Corinthians says Love endures though every circumstance. Your friend was talking behind your back? Keep loving them. Your parents got divorced? Keep loving them. Your sibling is rude and mean to you? Keep loving them. No one is perfect, not even you. Treat others the way that you want to be treated.
2 Timothy 4:7-8 "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, and I have remained faithful. And now the prize awaits me--the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will give me on the day of his return."
God puts us through tough things sometimes. But God, who is the creator, director, author, artist, and mastermind of the universe does not do anything without reason. Every circumstance He puts us through is to teach us something. Ask Him to show You what He is teaching You, and learn from all of Your circumstances! Through everything- Let love remain.
1 Corinthians 13:13- "Three things will last forever- faith, hope, and love- and the greatest of these is love."
-Jenna Hampton
with Zach Sumner
3/23/10
God Is Love
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about in justice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance."
1 Corinthians 13:13- "Three things will last forever- faith, hope, and love- and the greatest of these is love."
*If you want to read more on love, read 1 John. It is about how God is love, and how to shine for Him.
This is a blog that I wrote for English Class about love. I think it's a good summary:
can't people stay together?
Love Never Loses Faith Or Hope
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice, but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, NEVER LOSES FAITH, is always HOPEFUL, and endures through every circumstance."
Faith, hope, and love are tied very close together. A great verse to show that bond is 1 Corinthians 13:13. It says, "Three things will last forever--faith, hope, and love--and the greatest of these is love." The Bible tells us that to love someone through our actions, we must always have faith and hope in them. So, what does that look like?
Synonyms for FAITH: Acceptance, assurance, belief, certainty, and confidence.
Synonyms for HOPE: Ambition, anticipation, assumption, belief, and promise.
"Hope is what you've got left when nothing else is working out right. Taking it to God in prayer, removes the obstacles of alone-ness and worry. If He'll take care of the lilies of the field, He will take care of you." -swinter5
"He who has faith has... an inward reservoir of courage, hope, confidence, calmness, and assuring trust that all will come out well - even though to the world it may appear to come out most badly." -B.C. Forbes
Sin and temptation are constantly pulling at everybody's faith and hope. "I'll never be able to do this." We think. "I just don't know how to trust God when I don't know what will happen." We say. Believing that God is in control is one thing. KNOWING that He is in control is another. His Word tells us that through Him, all things are possible. To love Him, we must obey Him. To obey Him, we must have faith and hope.
2 Timothy 1:7- "For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self-discipline."
Faith and hope share one common synonym- Belief. Just as you believe that you will be able to get up and walk tomorrow morning, take in a deep breath, or talk when you want to, believe in the things that God can do through you. Everyone can make a difference. If you are truly a changed person in Christ, you have already made an impact. Keep believing! Also, believe in the people around you, and never stop loving them. God gives us great rules to live by!
1 Corinthians 12:31- "So you should earnestly desire the most helpful gifts. But now let me show you a way of life that is best of all."
-Jenna Hampton
with swinter5 and B. C. Forbes
3/19/10
Love Never Gives Up
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. LOVE NEVER GIVES UP, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance."
Never giving up is a concept that no one can truly understand, except God. He never gives up on us, and we should never give up on Him. It's very easy to underestimate Him and lose our patience. Just remember that God has a reason for everything and will reward you greatly if you don't give up!
"I could give all you seek and pleased you would be. You'd have what you want, but you wouldn't know me. You'd not know the depth of my love for each saint. You'd not know the power that I give to the faint. You'd not learn to see through clouds of despair; You'd not learn to trust just by knowing I'm there. You'd not know the joy of resting in me. When darkness and silence are all you can see... You'd never know, should your pain quickly flee, what it means that My grace is sufficient for thee. Yes, your dearest dreams overnight would come true, but, oh, the loss, if you missed what I'm doing in you. So be silent, my child, and in time you will see that the greatest of gifts is to truly know me. And though oft my answers seem terribly late, my most precious answer of all is still... WAIT." -From the poem 'Wait' by Russell Kelfer
One of the best ways to love by not giving up is to think of each day as a battle. If you try your best to obey the Lord, even if you fail, than the battle is won and things will get better. If you follow your own will, than the battle is lost and things will get worse. Soldiers in battle have a command to never give up until the war is won. Your purpose for God is your war. Never give up on your life, or the people in it. "No course is lost if there is but one man willing to fight for it." -Captain Jack Sparrow
Galatians 6:9- "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the right time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."
-Jenna Hampton
with Russell Kelfer and Captain Jack Sparrow
3/15/10
Love Rejoices Whenever The Truth Wins Out
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient and kind. LOVE is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice, but REJOICES WHENever THE TRUTH WINS OUT. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance."
What does rejoicing mean or look like? The dictionary says:
1. To be glad; take delight
2. To make joyful; gladden
God loves us very much, and He often does things for us that make us rejoice. To love Him, it is very important to thank Him and rejoice when He does something awesome for us. (it happens a lot!)
Philippians 4:4-6 "Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again- rejoice! Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Remember, the Lord is coming soon. Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done."
Keep striving everyday to know the Lord's truth and to learn more of His Word. Always rejoice and have faith that God will be faithful! Shine like a light in the dark, be a wise person in a group of fools. I think the Newsboys have rejoicing down in their song, 'Wherever We Go'.
"Wherever we go, the bluebirds sing, and the flowers bloom, and the grass gets green. It's a curious thing, but it's just our thing. Wherever we go, the bees behave in the treetops, squirrels smile and wave. It's a curious thing, and it's humbling. Wherever we go, little glow-worms glow, little roadrunners run ahead. Gonna tell their friends, little mice, little men. Get em' all excited, all invited." -Newsboys
One thing I've always heard is count your blessings, not your setbacks. It works! Instead of thinking about all the things that are wrong in your life and your relationships, pray that God will take care of those issues, and rejoice about the things that are good.
Psalm 51:6- Surely you desire truth in the inner parts; you teach me wisdom in the inmost place."
-Jenna Hampton
with the Newsboys
3/11/10
Love Keeps No Record Of Being Wronged
3/9/10
Love Does Not Rejoice About Injustice
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "LOVE is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It DOES NOT REJOICE ABOUT INJUSTICE but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
"Love and justice go hand in hand- you can't have one without the other. Justice without love is cruelty, and love without justice is a permissive, anything goes attitude." -Zach Sumner
God is the ultimate judge. The only way to REALLY know the things that are right and wrong is to read His Word! So, what does 1 Corinthians mean when it says that 'love does not rejoice about injustice?' It can relate to a few different things. One way we can look at it is that we don't just think it's okay when we sin against God. Such as, "I love you God... I went to a crazy party and did things that I shouldn't have last night... but it's okay because I still love you."
Proverbs 28:13- "He who conceals his sins does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy."
God is just, so there's no way of fooling Him. Since He sent His Son to die for us on the cross, He is able to forgive us for our sins, putting the punishment on Christ. The sacrifice of God's Son for us is an atonement for our sins, and it shows that God believes in justice and doing what it right.
Proverbs 28:5, 7- "Evil people don't understand justice, but those who follow the Lord understand completely." "Young people who obey the law are wise; those with wild friends bring shame to their parents."
Unfortunately, most of our society glorifies sin. Media treats sin like a frozen meal. Frozen meals look great on the packages. Looking at the package in the store makes your mouth water for the good meal shown in the picture. Even more, the low price and the convincing words on commercials push you to buy into frozen meals time after time. We all know how the story ends, though. The meal you get is nothing like the meal in the picture, and the consequences are not exactly what you had in mind.
In the same way, T.V., music, and word or mouth can make sin look very appetising. But just like the food in the picture compared to what it really is, sinning never turns out right. If we act a certain way, we get praised for it, even if doing whatever we did wasn't very honorable. The problem with all of this is that God says it's wrong! He loves us, and He will not pretend that doing the wrong thing is good.
Continue striving to live up to God's standard, and stand for the RIGHT thing. If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything. Rejoice about justice, rejoice about love.
-Jenna Hampton
with Zach Sumner
3/7/10
Love Is Not Demanding Or Irritable
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient and kind. LOVE IS NOT jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not DEMAND its own way. It is not IRRITABLE, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice, but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance."
"Love is hard to offend and quick to forgive. How easily do you get irritated and offended? When under pressure, love doesn't turn sour. Minor problems don't yield major reactions. The truth is, love does not get angry or hurt unless there is a legitimate and just reason in the sight of God." -The Love Dare
Irritability connects with rudeness in a sense. Usually, people don't act rude unless they are irritated, right? So, how do we prevent ourselves from getting irritated? Be patient! If you have patience, you will not become easily irritated, and therefore will not have the urge to be rude.
Proverbs 16:32- "Better to be patient than powerful; better to have self-control than to conquer a city."
God never demands His own way. He believes in encouragement and kindness and faithfulness. He is quick to love and slow to anger, or get irritated. It is tough not to be demanding, but after all, life isn't Burger King- You can't always 'have it your way'! God knows what He's doing. Who are we to question Him? He calls us to obey Him and to be patient with those we love.
"Here's a good example. If you asked a friend to clean up your house for you, and they did, but it wasn't really exactly how you wanted it, shouldn't you still thank them? You should not get irritated easily with someone, especially if they had good intentions or were trying to do something nice." -Stefanie Hampton
Think of these two scenarios:
A- You come to your parents demanding that they let you go to a concert with your friends because they never let you do ANYTHING, and all of your friends get to do whatever they want.
B- You help your parents out with chores on Friday afternoon, then come to your parents, tell them about a concert that you heard about, ask them nicely if you can go, and be happy with whatever they say.
Scenario B will get you almost anything you want, if you are being genuine. Why? Because love does not demand its own way, and it is also not irritable. Love never fails. God never fails.
1 Corinthians 13:13- "Three things will last forever- faith, hope, and love- and the greatest of these is love."
-Jenna Hampton
with The Love Dare and Stefanie Hampton
3/4/10
Love Is Not Rude
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient and kind. LOVE IS NOT jealous or boastful or proud or RUDE. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance."
Love is not rude is a very obvious statement! It should be easily followed as well, right? That's not always the case. Well, what does being rude mean exactly? The top five synonyms for the word rude are- abrupt, abusive, bad-mannered, barbarian, and graceless. All of us can admit to acting like that a few times each week.
"This phrase reminds me of the facebook group 'I thought you were pretty but then your ugly attitude ruined it.' In the original Greek language, the phrase 'Love is not rude' means that love does not behave in a way that makes a person appear ugly. Christians are called to love and love is always a beautiful thing." -Piper Kelly
One of the fruits of the Spirit is gentleness. How can you show gentleness if you are acting rude? Talking back to parents, arguing with friends, cussing, and violence are all things that are rude and very far from the way that God wants us to love others! Christians are called to be beautiful on the inside, and kick rudeness out of their lives. Just think about a skunk. People may have loved it and thought it to be a cute animal just like a squirrel or a chipmunk, but the rude and vile smell that it causes makes people run away at the sight of a skunk!
Matthew 7:12- "Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets."
God is never barbaric or rude! To be like Christ, we must act the same way. Love others today by controlling your temper, guarding your speech, and doing your best not to irritate anyone purposely. The praise you will earn for living up to God's standard is a million times better than the praise you get from the world! Always remember what's important. How great is our God!
John 14:27- "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid."
-Jenna Hampton
with Piper Kelly
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3/2/10
Love Is Not Boastful Or Proud
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 "Love is patient and kind. LOVE IS NOT jealous or BOASTFUL OR PROUD or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice, but rejoices when the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance."
We all know what being proud is, and we have all been proud before. 'I did this! I did that!' And sometimes, it's great to inform others of the things you have done and the things you are excited about. But when being proud becomes being prideful, and when telling someone about yourself becomes boasting is when it becomes a sin.
"How are you really showing love for someone else if you are being boastful and proud? If you do that, all they see if the love you have for yourself." -Stefanie Hampton
The Bible says that 'kind words are like honey-sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.' (Proverbs 16:24) During a conversation, you will always be tempted to talk about yourself! It's okay every once in awhile, but to really show the ACTION of loving others, we have to think more about them than we do ourselves. Try listening more than you speak today. After all, we have two ears and one mouth for a good reason.
Proverbs 16:5- "The Lord detests the proud; they will surely be punished."
The Lord despises those who are surrounded by a bubble of self-love. Be careful never to take the glory that the Lord deserves. If someone compliments you on being a loving, kind person, tell them that it's only because of the love that the Lord has for you! God will use you in any way he pleases, according to his perfect plan. There is no need to be proud of yourself when you can be proud of your God and amazed at His glory.
Proverbs 16:33- "We may throw the dice, but the Lord determines how they fall."
Proverbs 16:18- "Pride goes before destruction, and haughtiness before a fall."
Keep loving others the best you can through Christ, and living up to God's standard. Work hard for His glory! If you listen to others very carefully, you may discover awesome things that you never knew before.
-Jenna Hampton
with Stefanie Hampton